Many men watching their partner go through an unplanned pregnancy often feel like they have no idea what to do. Neither of you planned for this, and yet this life-changing weight has been placed on your shoulders. But since the men in these relationships do not have to experience the physical effects of the pregnancy, they can often feel like their role is unimportant or unwanted. Often, they’ll ask themselves questions like:
Asking yourself these questions is both normal and understandable. You are in a tough spot. However, that does not mean that your thoughts and opinions are without value. Many women look to their partners as a source of trust, and you can serve in that role if she is receptive to it, whether you realize or not.
Open, honest and frequent communication is vitally important throughout the pregnancy. If you are both clear about one another’s thoughts and feelings, then your experience will be made much easier. And despite the fact that next steps regarding the pregnancy are ultimately her choice, your voice is important in this process as well.
If you and your partner recently found out you are pregnant, Hopeline PRC is here to help. Please contact us today to schedule an appointment.
Hopeline offers a program specifically for fathers, called “Forever Fathers”. Forever Fathers is a place to go for support and share common experiences with other men; the purpose of “Forever Fathers” is to help good dads become awesome fathers. If you would be interested in joining, please contact us today.